Advice.We get a lot of it.I get a lot of it.We get it out of concern,out of love.Out of spite maybe?I choose not to think so.When we give others advice,does the advice come from genuine concern?In a world and society so twisted I wish I could believe that it is always the case.

To be honest with you,it is not the case.Sometimes,the advice we give our friends is delivered with an air of "i knew it" and "i told you so".WE love to dispense advice because it sometimes makes us feel good,it makes us feel as if we know how to handle the situation better.When you give advice,dont be too self righteous.

Dont be too certain and dont predict the future for the poor guy.Thats the last thing he needs.When people turn to each other for advice or counsel,what they need is a shoulder to cry on,to lean on.They dont need a jury.